Introverts talk little but actually love to talk.

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If I had a penny for every time I heard I was quiet, I could buy a tropical island and live in luxury for the rest of my life. I don't have a penny, so I've been struggling with prejudice my whole life, even though I'm actually a very talkative creature like many other introverts.

The problem with introverts and silence is that we only speak when we denmark whatsapp list something to say, and then we can't be stopped. We don't like small talk and talking about irrelevant topics. We're not overly interested in current affairs. If we don't like a topic (e.g. politics or pop music) then we really don't have anything to say about it.

What introverts love are endless discussions about topics that, in their opinion, make sense. Usually, these are topics with deeper meaning or conversations that reveal the personality of the person they are talking to. Superficial topics with a short shelf life? No thanks, find an extrovert for that.

Introverts often have trouble showing their feelings.
Which is why we can be labeled as cold, uninterested, or indifferent. For introverts, the problem is living in an environment that is used to clearly expressing certain emotions. When you're happy, you laugh and jump. When you're sad, you cry.

Introverts experience the full range and storm of emotions even more than extroverts, with one difference – they experience them inside themselves. They have no need or knowledge to show the world what they feel, so they are labeled as cold or learn to act outwardly what they feel inside.

Introverts also have trouble showing and expressing their feelings for other people. If we don't like someone, we'll politely walk away and forget that person even exists after 10 seconds. If we like or love someone, we'll do 1,000 little things to show them how much we care about them.

We may not say it out loud, but we will try to show it. Those who understand deserve introverts in their lives because they clearly understand them well and read their hidden feelings.

Introverts need peace and quiet
I know a lot of people, extroverted people, who confidently claim that they too need peace to come to their senses, and I believe them. But introverts really need peace to the nth power if you don't want them to end up in a psychiatric hospital.

I've read in some places that introverts are called almost autistic in some of their habits and routines. The truth is that introverts love routine and a safe zone more than anything else, which provides them with security from the loud outside world that surrounds them.

When an introvert closes in on themselves, it's a sign that they're recharging their batteries, and if you interrupt them, the reaction could be violent. This is where many who share their living space with an introvert fail the test because they also react violently or get offended for no reason, which leads to conflict situations that knock introverts out of their seats.

The best thing you can do if you live with an introvert is to let them recharge. Respect their privacy and don't push until they show up on their own. When you see an introvert come out of their shell, it's a sign that they're ready to interact.

Introverts don't like conflicts and are bad at them.
There are many people who are not conflict-prone and do not like to argue, but this is especially pronounced among introverts, and they react to conflict situations incomparably more strongly than other personality types. Introverts not only do not like conflicts, they are extremely bad at them.

You know those situations when someone says something to you, and 4 hours later you remember what you were supposed to say? If the answer is yes, then you are probably an introvert. Of course, during the conflict you were silent as if you were watered down because you were blocked by the surge of emotions and noise, or you responded with a very aggressive counterattack that usually boils down to insults or even physical confrontation (this is what happens when you push an introvert to the edge, burn all the bridges behind you).

Introverts will try to avoid any kind of conflict at all costs because conflict takes them out of their comfort zone and increases their natural tendency to be anxious to the max. If you want to say something to an introvert and you know they won't like it, calm your nerves. If you start dramatizing and shouting, you've lost not only the battle but the war (and most likely the introvert).

Angry people are too much for introverts who have a hard time dealing with too much emotion, especially negative ones. That's why introverts are masters of hiding their feelings, desires, and needs because it's easier for them to agree and suffer than to face conflict.